{"id":8343,"date":"2020-03-31T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-03-31T12:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/?p=8343"},"modified":"2020-03-30T22:44:09","modified_gmt":"2020-03-31T02:44:09","slug":"the-souvenir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/2020\/03\/31\/the-souvenir\/","title":{"rendered":"The Souvenir."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Joanna Hogg&#8217;s autobiographical coming-of-age drama <em>The Souvenir <\/em>made a slew of best-of-2019 lists, taking the World Cinema Grand Jury Prize at last year&#8217;s Sundance Film Festival and winning<em> Sight and Sound<\/em>&#8216;s poll for the best film of 2019. My friend Tim Grierson has been a big advocate of the film, ranking it 7th among films of last year, and of director Joanna Hogg, which was really enough to get me to watch it. It is a very British movie, understated and often ponderous, but it&#8217;s bolstered by two very strong performances by the leads and the resolution gives a real catharsis to everything the film has asked you to endure up to that point. (It&#8217;s streaming now <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3avWLt3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" aria-label=\"on Amazon Prime (opens in a new tab)\">on Amazon Prime<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Honor Swinton-Byrne plays Julie, a 24-year-old would-be\nfilmmaker, in film school at the moment, who meets a Foreign Office staffer in\nhis mid-30s named Anthony (Tom Burke) and almost falls into a desultory affair\nwith him, despite his secretive nature and tendency to subtly put her down. It\nseems like he&#8217;s gaslighting her from the start, but it becomes more evident\nwhen he starts to borrow money from her &#8211; despite him having a job that often\nsends him abroad, while she&#8217;s a poor student &#8211; and eventually she learns via a\nfriend of his (Richard Ayaode) that he&#8217;s hiding a heroin habit. She&#8217;s too\nenamored of him to leave, however, despite his increasing duplicity, and the\nrelationship begins to consume her as Anthony&#8217;s situation gets worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is a very slow burn until the last quarter of the film;\nthere are no screaming fights, no violence, just a few verbal confrontations\nwhere Julie ends up apologizing even though Anthony is clearly in the wrong.\nIt&#8217;s painful to watch her abase herself for a man who has never shown himself\nto be worth this kind of devotion; I&#8217;m not even clear what his redeeming\nqualities are supposed to be, as he&#8217;s not charming, good-looking, or kind. What\nfinally pushes her to the breaking point is several steps beyond what a\nrational person would need to say &#8216;enough,&#8217; but that&#8217;s the emotional center of\nthe film &#8211; just how far Julie has fallen into this trap, and how easily it\nhappened to her. There have been many entries in the &#8220;young woman falls\nfor a feckless, manipulative, older man&#8221; genre, but this one, based on\nHogg&#8217;s own life in film school in the late &#8217;70s, feels extremely realistic\nbecause it doesn&#8217;t have the Big Moments and never comes across like a film\ntrying to make you feel something specific.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Swinton-Byrne is very convincing as Julie, imbuing the character\nwith na\u00efvet\u00e9 rather than just innocence, and making it a bit more plausible\nthat she&#8217;d fall under Anthony&#8217;s spell because she seems so lonely in the early\nscenes &#8211; and thus more appreciative of someone, especially an older man, giving\nher attention. Burke does what he is supposed to be doing with Anthony,\nalthough the attraction of such a mopey, vaguely derisive man is beyond me; he\ndoes carry himself with an air of sophistication that might explain it,\nalthough perhaps it&#8217;s just the upper-class English accent that got me. Ayaode\nis only in one scene, but he grabs the whole thing from the two leads and\nutterly owns that entire conversation &#8211; sitting next to his real-life wife,\nLydia Fox, as they talk &#8211; while not just delivering a key piece of information\nto Julie, but doing so with a unique affectation that totally commands your\nattention. Swinton-Byrne&#8217;s mother, Tilda Swinton, appears in the film as\nJulie&#8217;s mother, although her character is something of a cipher and she has\nlittle to do until the last few scenes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Souvenir<\/em> is quite good, but also so slow and quiet in\nparts that it feels almost expressly anti-commercial: The audience for this\nsort of movie is very small, a set that probably comprises fans of art house\nfilms, Anglophiles, and not a whole lot more. I liked it, but I can&#8217;t say I\nenjoyed it, between the pace and the horror of watching Julie so unaware that\nAnthony is taking advantage of her. It&#8217;s a film to be appreciated, rather than\none that seeks to entertain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen 31 movies from 2019 so far, and I have three more I&#8217;d really like to see before closing the book on the year, so to speak, all of them foreign-language films. Two are streaming now on Hulu, <em>Portrait of a Lady on Fire <\/em>and <em>Monos<\/em>, while the third will stream on Amazon Prime in about two weeks, the Oscar-nominated <em>Les Mis\u00e9rables.<\/em> (Amazon also will premiere the Brazilian submission to the 92nd Oscars, <em>The Invisible Life of Eur\u00eddice Gusm\u00e3o<\/em>, this Friday). I&#8217;ll probably watch the first in the next few days, and then I&#8217;ll rank the movies I&#8217;ve seen from 2019, but if you have suggestions I&#8217;m all ears.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Joanna Hogg&#8217;s autobiographical coming-of-age drama The Souvenir made a slew of best-of-2019 lists, taking the World Cinema Grand Jury Prize at last year&#8217;s Sundance Film Festival and winning Sight and Sound&#8216;s poll for the best film of 2019. My friend Tim Grierson has been a big advocate of the film, ranking it 7th among films [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[1077,663,215],"class_list":["post-8343","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-2019-movies","tag-autobiography","tag-movies","entry"],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8343","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8343"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8343\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8345,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8343\/revisions\/8345"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8343"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8343"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meadowparty.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8343"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}